[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="junglist101"]

The fact that most women check me out speaks for itself.

[/QUOTE] It's not cause you're good looking, it's cause they see your wedding ring, and notice a man with his priorities straight.[/QUOTE]Nope. No noticeable difference since I got married.

I get a lot of the attention at the gym where I don't wear my ring. By checking me out I mean staring, smiling, trying to talk to me etc. all ages from high school girls to woman way too old for my tastes. When I go out I get a lot of attention so much infact that it makes me uncomfortable at times.

I'm a well put together guy with or without the ring but I have put a lot and I mean a lot of work into it. Before that I used to look avarage at best.

Ill just leave it at that because I don't want to go on about myself although I somewhat enjoy it :P.

[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="junglist101"]

[QUOTE="Fightingfan"] It's not cause you're good looking, it's cause they see your wedding ring, and notice a man with his priorities straight.[/QUOTE]Nope. No noticeable difference since I got married.

I get a lot of the attention at the gym where I don't wear my ring. By checking me out I mean staring, smiling, trying to talk to me etc. all ages from high school girls to woman way too old for my tastes. When I go out I get a lot of attention so much infact that it makes me uncomfortable at times.

I'm a well put together guy with or without the ring but I have put a lot and I mean a lot of work into it. Before that I used to look avarage at best.

Ill just leave it at that because I don't want to go on about myself although I somewhat enjoy it :P.

[/QUOTE] Oh. Well if a women just saying hi to me is flirting I'm a fawkin' stunner.[/QUOTE]Maybe you are and never knew it.

[QUOTE="ShadowMoses900"]

I guess in my own way. But I don't go around thinking I'm better looking than everyone else, that's just self centered and egotistical. I think everyone is attractive in their own way, "better looking" is very subjective, cultural prefrences have a strong influence, if we were living in the ancient world we would all be chubby chasers, if we were in Europe we would be ok with more hary women.

What really makes you more attractive is confidence. True story, a good buddy of mine decided he was going to take me on a vacation trip to florida after I came back from living with my Uncle on his farm, who was in the military and made me do boot camp excercises every freakin' day.

I was in the best shape of my entire life, full six pack and everything, my friend was on the heavy side, and he had a bit of a bald spot and always had a crooked smile from an injury. We were staying in a hotel and went out for a night on the town to meet some women, well guess what?

He got more attention from girls than I did, I got ignored completely, even though I was in better shape and everything. You know why? Because I had no confidence back then, I wasn't secure about myself and had no self belief.

Not one girl bothered to speak with me, they flocked to my chubby, balding, crooked friend though like crazy. Women love him, even to this day after he's married now, women still flirt with him all the time and check him out.

After that day I learned something, it's about self confidence. I worked on it (it takes time to build it) and after I did that I ended up getting women all the time just like my friend did. That's what makes you attractive really, it's your self confidence and attitude.

Of course taking care of youself is important and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but confidence is the real factor in what makes you attractive or not.

[/QUOTE]Tis' true. You can be the best looking guy in the room but they will flock to the avarage guy with confidence who knoews how to talk to the ladies over the guy who just looks good.