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I Feel Like 1 Outta 3 Chicks I Meet Has Been Molested/Raped

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feels like 1 in 3 I meet have been molested or raped..is it really this common?
yes, you'd be surprised at how many women have been raped in their lifetime
16% [6]
your statistics are way off, its not that common. ever thought it was just you?
29% [11]
same here man, it seems a lot of girls I meet have been raped, its messed up
16% [6]
some chicks lie though..like getting drunk, having sex, then regretting it after
32% [12]
what a sick world we live in..
8% [3]
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    Oct 3, 2012 3:23 pm GMT

    just heard another sob story..and its the same old story too..we've heard it all before: girl is molested by her uncle at a young age. trauma, guilt, the works.

    goddamn it pisses me off. these things leaves these chicks with zero self-esteem. damaged for life

    what a sick world we live in

    Edited on Oct 3, 2012 3:50 pm GMT

    :( just heard another sob story..and its the same old story too..we've heard it all before: girl is molested by her uncle at a young age. trauma, guilt, the works.

    goddamn it pisses me off. these things leaves these chicks with zero self-esteem. damaged for life :evil:

    what a sick world we live in

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    Oct 3, 2012 3:24 pm GMT

    you don't have to "feel" it.

    i'm pretty sure that 33% or so is the actual statistic.

    “We deeply apologize for the inconvenience we have caused,”

    you don't have to "feel" it.

    i'm pretty sure that 33% or so is the actual statistic.

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    Oct 3, 2012 3:26 pm GMT

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    “We deeply apologize for the inconvenience we have caused,”

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

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    Riverwolf007 wrote:

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

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    [QUOTE="Riverwolf007"]

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    [/QUOTE]

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

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    Oct 3, 2012 3:33 pm GMT
    Not just young girls.. even young boys too.. sad world.

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    Not just young girls.. even young boys too.. sad world.
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    Oct 3, 2012 3:34 pm GMT

    sSubZerOo wrote:

    Riverwolf007 wrote:

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

    no clue.

    probably something horrible like the stat is the same for all races but they report it more.

    “We deeply apologize for the inconvenience we have caused,”

    [QUOTE="sSubZerOo"]

    [QUOTE="Riverwolf007"]

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    [/QUOTE]

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

    [/QUOTE]no clue.

    probably something horrible like the stat is the same for all races but they report it more.

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    Oct 3, 2012 3:53 pm GMT
    Where the hell do you live?
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    Oct 3, 2012 4:02 pm GMT

    sSubZerOo wrote:

    Riverwolf007 wrote:

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

    Because the majority of Alaskan Natives still live in Alaska, and rape rates are through the roof there, across the board. I grew up in the dead center of Alaska. It's ridiculous. Pretty sure every girl I know has been raped. Most of them a couple times.

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    [QUOTE="sSubZerOo"]

    [QUOTE="Riverwolf007"]

    here it is.

    Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

    • All women: 17.6%
    • White women: 17.7%
    • Black women: 18.8%
    • Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
    • American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
    • Mixed race women: 24.4%

    http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

    [/QUOTE]

    Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

    [/QUOTE]

    Because the majority of Alaskan Natives still live in Alaska, and rape rates are through the roof there, across the board. I grew up in the dead center of Alaska. It's ridiculous. Pretty sure every girl I know has been raped. Most of them a couple times.

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    Oct 3, 2012 4:03 pm GMT

    Asking women if they have been molested/rape doesn't really come up in discussion when I meet someone.

    Asking women if they have been molested/rape doesn't really come up in discussion when I meet someone.

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    Oct 3, 2012 4:13 pm GMT

    if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

    Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
    You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

    Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

    Hell, by the technical definition, I've been raped three times, and molested over 10 times a week. But for all practical reasons, I dont count it as rape.

    I think we are simply seeing the knee-jerk counter reaaction to tradtional thinking: 30+ years ago, it was "blame the victim" when someone got raped, "she was asking for it" and stuff like that; now, we are overly sensitive and the definition has been broadened as to not exclude anyone, even if it includes things that shouldnt be there.

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    if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

    Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
    You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

    Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

    Hell, by the technical definition, I've been raped three times, and molested over 10 times a week. But for all practical reasons, I dont count it as rape.

    I think we are simply seeing the knee-jerk counter reaaction to tradtional thinking: 30+ years ago, it was "blame the victim" when someone got raped, "she was asking for it" and stuff like that; now, we are overly sensitive and the definition has been broadened as to not exclude anyone, even if it includes things that shouldnt be there.

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    mrbojangles25 wrote:

    if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

    Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
    You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

    Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

    That really depends where you are. As I said, Alaska is terrible for that. The place is totally loaded with drunks, drug addicts, and violent criminals (many of whom came to alaska in the first place, running away from charges in other places). I know. I grew up there. I worked right in the heart of downtown Fairbanks for years and years. The rape rate there is more than 33%, i'm pretty sure, and the majority of that is, in fact, real cases of actual, violent, forced sex kind of rape. And that's why the American Indian/Alaskan rate mentioned in that earlier post is so high, compared to the others. Because the majority of the Alaskan Native population is in Alaska. And yeah, they're getting raped by drunks and drug addicts all the time.

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    [QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

    if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

    Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
    You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

    Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

    [/QUOTE]

    That really depends where you are. As I said, Alaska is terrible for that. The place is totally loaded with drunks, drug addicts, and violent criminals (many of whom came to alaska in the first place, running away from charges in other places). I know. I grew up there. I worked right in the heart of downtown Fairbanks for years and years. The rape rate there is more than 33%, i'm pretty sure, and the majority of that is, in fact, real cases of actual, violent, forced sex kind of rape. And that's why the American Indian/Alaskan rate mentioned in that earlier post is so high, compared to the others. Because the majority of the Alaskan Native population is in Alaska. And yeah, they're getting raped by drunks and drug addicts all the time.

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    Sure some get raped, but there are plenty who cry rape when it actually wasnt. I saw one Australian commercial that said 1/2 of females there get raped. i laughed.
    Sure some get raped, but there are plenty who cry rape when it actually wasnt. I saw one Australian commercial that said 1/2 of females there get raped. i laughed.
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    hartsickdiscipl wrote:

    1 out of 3 chicks have met Chuck Norris. Coincidence?

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    It happens more often than people realize.
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    mingmao3046 wrote:
    Sure some get raped, but there are plenty who cry rape when it actually wasnt. I saw one Australian commercial that said 1/2 of females there get raped. i laughed.

    while that is true, you have to remember that there are also plenty of victims who never report it out of fear and/or shame

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    [QUOTE="mingmao3046"]Sure some get raped, but there are plenty who cry rape when it actually wasnt. I saw one Australian commercial that said 1/2 of females there get raped. i laughed.[/QUOTE] while that is true, you have to remember that there are also plenty of victims who never report it out of fear and/or shame
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    regarding some types of molestation such as grabbing or teasing I don't know - they are very common.

    HOWEVER:

    you will never mistake it when you meet a REAL victim of rape - they are SO devastated that it is unmistakable.

    One young Korean girl serving in the cafeteria on the Air Base - when a couple air men started making extremely rude suggestions in Korean she dropped the trays she was carrying and curled up on the floor in a ball.

    I helped pick up the things and gave her a hand to sit down and got her some tea but it took a long time for her to come out of it.

    she looked to me for help often after that and eventually we were a couple - but only so far because she had been raped by a G.I. and it was several years before she was comforable enough to become 'close' with a man.

    eventually she had her confidence back again - after we had been together for about three years she discovered that her father was alive - part of the problem was she had thought all her family was dead - another story - the father had been working for a high official of the government who became targeted as unreliable. he and most of his associates disappeared.

    regarding some types of molestation such as grabbing or teasing I don't know - they are very common.

    HOWEVER:

    you will never mistake it when you meet a REAL victim of rape - they are SO devastated that it is unmistakable.

    One young Korean girl serving in the cafeteria on the Air Base - when a couple air men started making extremely rude suggestions in Korean she dropped the trays she was carrying and curled up on the floor in a ball.

    I helped pick up the things and gave her a hand to sit down and got her some tea but it took a long time for her to come out of it.

    she looked to me for help often after that and eventually we were a couple - but only so far because she had been raped by a G.I. and it was several years before she was comforable enough to become 'close' with a man.

    eventually she had her confidence back again - after we had been together for about three years she discovered that her father was alive - part of the problem was she had thought all her family was dead - another story - the father had been working for a high official of the government who became targeted as unreliable. he and most of his associates disappeared.

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    Yeah. Most of the women I have met say that they have been molested or raped.

    So it is much higher than 1/3 in my experience. It really sucks.

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    Yeah. Most of the women I have met say that they have been molested or raped. So it is much higher than 1/3 in my experience. It really sucks.
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