i know i'm late to the blog (and thanks for the follow) but i really like your link between games and confidence! the trick is to realizing that you CAN do it if you put your mind to it, and apply some of your gaming confidence to the real world.

I used to be a very shy person but as I got older it just got easier and I realised that people aren't looking at me and judging me. They just don't care! It's very liberating doing stuff by yourself like the cinema or the pub. Ironically playing games may have lowered my confidence as getting online I realise that overall I suck at BF3 :P

I used to be a very shy person but as I got older it just got easier and I realised that people aren't looking at me and judging me. They just don't care! It's very liberating doing stuff by yourself like the cinema or the pub. Ironically playing games may have lowered my confidence as getting online I realise that overall I suck at BF3 :P

Ah, yes I must be the master ninja of low confidence. I've always been this way, but it's gotten worse and worse as I get older...I can only be me, the real me, with people I know VERY well. My shyness is like crippling but i don't know what to do about it :/

Ah, yes I must be the master ninja of low confidence. I've always been this way, but it's gotten worse and worse as I get older...I can only be me, the real me, with people I know VERY well. My shyness is like crippling but i don't know what to do about it :/

@mostafa94 - my pleasure. I try to take the time out to read other people's blogs, even if they don't read mine ;)

@mostafa94 - my pleasure. I try to take the time out to read other people's blogs, even if they don't read mine ;)

@tataaaar LOL Ok u got a point, but what l'll trying say is if you wanna be good at something all you have to do is put your mind to it, keep on trying, and eventually u'll get it done ;)

@tataaaar LOL Ok u got a point, but what l'll trying say is if you wanna be good at something all you have to do is put your mind to it, keep on trying, and eventually u'll get it done ;)

your true but i don't like the confidence made by dead space two! you now it scare the hell out of me but a game that give me freedom to chose will be better, dus ex or witcher 2 for example!!?

your true but i don't like the confidence made by dead space two! you now it scare the hell out of me but a game that give me freedom to chose will be better, dus ex or witcher 2 for example!!?

@pokecharm Thanks for the advice, there will be a presentation soon, l'll do my best, Oh and thx for reading my blog :)

@pokecharm Thanks for the advice, there will be a presentation soon, l'll do my best, Oh and thx for reading my blog :)

for me, self confidence comes from knowing you know what you're doing or know what you're talking about. I used to have regular presentations at work, and I always felt panicked right before I started, but once I got going, it was easy - a lesson I learned about public speaking I often use to this day is: remember why you are there. If you're there to convince someone of something, then focus on that, and not the eyes on you or the people staring at you - focus on your task at hand and it'll come more easily.

for me, self confidence comes from knowing you know what you're doing or know what you're talking about. I used to have regular presentations at work, and I always felt panicked right before I started, but once I got going, it was easy - a lesson I learned about public speaking I often use to this day is: remember why you are there. If you're there to convince someone of something, then focus on that, and not the eyes on you or the people staring at you - focus on your task at hand and it'll come more easily.